Message to youth & adults being misled by LGBTQIA-DEI ideology: QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE YOU BELIEVE ANYONE WHO SAYS “YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR SEX”
1️. The First Truth: Sex is Not a Choice
Your sex is decided the moment you are conceived.
Male: XY chromosomes
Female: XX chromosomes
These chromosomes exist in every cell of your body.
They determine your organs, hormones, and natural design —
and no drug, surgery, or hormone can ever change them.
2️. What a Biological Woman Is
- Born with XX chromosomes
- Has ovaries, uterus, vagina
- Produces eggs
- Experiences monthly menstruation
- Can carry and give birth to a child
No medicine can give a man these organs or functions.
3️. What a Biological Man Is
- Born with XY chromosomes
- Has penis and testes
- Produces sperm
- Can father a child
No amount of hormones or surgery can make a woman biologically male.
4️. What “Sex Change” Really Means
Doctors can remove or reshape body parts,
They can remove your breasts – but you do not become a male as a result.
They can remove your penis – but you do not become a female as a result.
Doctors cannot create real organs inside either males or females.
Doctors cannot make a man into a biological woman
Doctors cannot make a woman into a biological man
What really happens After “Sex Change” Surgery
1️. Artificial structures can’t work naturally
Doctors can only reshape the body — they can’t create real sex organs.
- A man-made “vagina” can’t menstruate or have children.
- A man-made “penis” can’t produce sperm or function naturally.
The procedures and medications can only change your body’s appearance – not your biological reality.
- A female can remove breasts & take medications to appear male but her female organs do not change
- A male can remove his penis & take medications to appear female but his male organs do not change.
Only your appearance changes.
Changing your appearance is not changing your sex — it is a medical illusion.
2️. Hormones for life
After removing natural organs, the body stops making sex hormones.
People must take artificial hormones forever — or face weak bones, heart problems, and sickness.
3️. Fertility is lost
Once the testes, ovaries, or uterus are removed, the person can never have biological children again.
4️. Long-term suffering
Many experience pain, infections, loss of feeling, depression, or regret.
Some later try to “detransition,” but much of the damage cannot be reversed.
5️. The Hidden Truths You’re Not Told
- “Gender-affirming care” is experimental, with no solid proof of long-term success.
- Thousands of people around the world are now detransitioningand speaking out against the harm that has come to them.
- Pharmaceutical companies and private clinics make billionsfrom lifelong hormone dependency. You are only their life long customer – dependent on costly drugs & checkups.
- NGOs and activists push this ideology under the banner of “rights” and “inclusion.” It is their job to promote it.
- Media rarely show those who suffer — only the polished success stories. Media is as much to blame as those indoctrinating you. Media spreads these notions, hides the suffering of those fooled into believing an illusion.
QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE YOU BELIEVE ANYONE WHO SAYS
“YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR SEX”
- Can any drug or surgery change my chromosomes (XX or XY)?
NO
- Can doctors give men real wombs, ovaries, or monthly periods?
NO
- Can women grow real sperm-producing testes?
NO
- If “gender” is only a feeling, why am I told to permanently alter my body?
Ask yourself.
- Why are people encouraged to make life-changing decisions before 18?
Think about it.
- Who profits from my confusion — me, or the people selling hormones and surgeries?
Got the answer?
- Why do “transitioned” people have to take medication for the rest of their lives?
Think about the cost & the side-effects & for how long
- Why aren’t we told about those who regret transitioning?
Have you tried to find out?
- Why are schools teaching children this ideology instead of science?
Good question – pose question to the Politicians & others pushing it
- What happens if I regret my decision — can I ever go back?
Sadly, you cannot fully go back.
Many realise too late that their healthy bodies were changed unnecessarily and permanently.
Those who misled you will not share your pain — they move on, rewarded and funded to target others next.
Behind them stand powerful lobbies, medical industries, and paid activists who profit from expanding the LGBTQIA market.
You become their lifelong customer, not a free human being.
Don’t let anyone profit by confusing you.
Protect your body before it’s too late.
Seek counselling only from those who guide with truth, not from those trying to indoctrinate you.
6️. Final Truth
For generations, people who felt same-sex attraction lived privately without demanding surgeries or public celebration.
They did not ask to change their sex or redefine society’s understanding of male and female. They lived their lives separately & peacefully & people accepted that.
Everything changed when global campaigns began linking
- Children as a new target group
- same-sex marriage,
- transgender identity, and
- medical “sex change” industries as a profit generator.
This shift was not organic or originated by the gays/lesbian community which is why many of them are now openly opposing them — it was funded and driven by political lobbies, NGOs, media and pharma-backed campaigns that turned a private matter into a public ideology.
They were told they must “change” to be accepted — a lie that brings confusion, pain, and profit to those behind it.
While the lobbyists forced nations to accept the ideology as “inclusive” but in reality giving a minor group exclusivity in rights often forsaking, silencing, suppressing and denying the rights of the majority.
The truth is plain & clear.
No one can rewrite your biology.
You are not born wrong. Never allow anyone to make you think so.
Don’t let activists, influencers, or even doctors convince you that destroying your healthy body is liberation.
You are special. There is no one in this world like you.
Learn to love yourself and surround yourself with people who truly care for you – and not those who use you for their agenda.
Sex is in your DNA — not your imagination.
💔 Truth heals. Lies harm.
We are not your enemy.
We only want to protect you from irreversible harm.
Stop listening to ideologies that harm you.
Protect your body. Protect your future. Protect your mind.
Shenali D Waduge
